Swimming

One thing I was really excited to do after activation was swim. :)  My parents have a pool so I grew up swimming a lot, but as an adult, I HATED swimming with people because I couldn't hear.  Hearing aids and water do not mix well.  Outside of family, there are only a handful of people I could handle swimming with just because I got really anxious when I couldn't hear...more on that later.  When my adorable little "nephew" and "niece" surprised me with a visit last week, one of the first things we did was get in the pool! :)  I had been swimming with them before, but this was the first time I'd ever been able to play with them in the water.  They are 3 and 5 and very imaginative and fun right now.  Brynna announced that, "Bub is a mean shark and I'm a dolphin running away.  And you're my best friend."  That was - by far - my favorite post-activation moment. :)

The main thing I'm realizing now is how much I missed before I could hear.  I assumed that hearing aids worked well and I was hearing most of what everyone else did, but I was SO wrong.  It's the little things that get me, things like playing in the pool. Hearing the kids laugh when we spin around in circles or being able to help Brynna jump in the water...those are things I never thought about or even realized I was missing, but those are priceless moments.

I don't usually post pictures of myself in a swimsuit on the internet (YIKES!) but a lot of people who read this are considering getting an Esteem.  Unless you've been deaf or hard of hearing, you don't understand the panic that comes with not hearing in social situations.  I think these pictures do a really good job of showing the difference. :)  I can't describe how amazing it was to actually PLAY in the pool and enjoy it!

This is really personal and I'll probably regret posting it, but if you know me in real life, you know my greatest desire is to have a family.  I struggle with understanding why I still don't have that...but being with the kids last week showed me how much easier life as a mom will be now that I can hear.  For the first time, I was able to talk to the kids while I was driving.  I could never understand them without lip-reading before.  I could hear them at night and when they were upstairs and I was downstairs.  Had life gone the way I planned, I would already have kids by now...but maybe this is all part of God's plan for me.  He knew this miracle was coming and that I'd be able to experience it.  Maybe it's part of the reason for the wait! :)

4 Week Adjustment

Part of having an Esteem is getting adjustments pretty regularly.  I'm very fortunate to live a few hours from my surgeon/audiologist's office AND my audiologist does not follow a fixed schedule for adjustments, so they got me in for an adjustment really quickly.  The main reason was to (hopefully) fix the problems I'm having a church.  I guess I'll find out if that worked tomorrow. :)  The added bonus is that Megan (the wonderful audiologist) was able to add more volume.  Apparently I'm adjusting REALLY quickly and can tolerate a lot of volume.  I thought this was obvious given my occupation. :)  However, Megan told me she usually can't give this much volume for A YEAR after activation.  Mine was 4 weeks ago.  I am SO blessed!  I am definitely not using all of the volume now, but I can adjust it whenever I'm ready.  The Esteem has 3 settings which are different for everyone based on the type of hearing loss and severity of it.  Usually, one is for quiet conversation, one is for background noise and one is for phone or tv.  I have a remote (Personal Programmer) that I can use to change settings whenever I want.  However, I hate doing that so my goal is to find a program that works for every situation.  In fact, on any given day, I couldn't tell you what setting I have it on. :)  Each setting has (had, now) 6 volume levels (0-5). Apparently, yesterday it was on C5, which was the loudest setting at the time.  Since I was able to tolerate that, Megan added more volume to C and completely changed my A and B settings to try and eliminate background noise.  I *think* it's on A3 now.  A is not quieter than C, but it has less power at certain frequencies which should eliminate the echo and static at church.  We'll see. :)

The BEST news is that my pure tone average and speech reception threshold are now 25 dB - NORMAL!!!!  Granted, it's barely normal, but that didn't stop me from screaming, "Are you freaking kidding me?!?!" when she said, "That was 25!!!!" :)  And...it will continue to improve over time. :)  I'm posting pictures below.  The first one is from activation.  The X's indicate my hearing with no hearing aid or Esteem.  It was bad.  The E's indicate activation.  I got INCREDIBLE gains at activation!  The other picture is from yesterday.  Some frequencies were better, some were worse but overall, it showed improvement.  My speech reception threshold was 5 dB better AND my word recognition went from 56% to 68%.  I'm still learning how to process sound and recognize how words sound now. :)  The test was given on setting C3, not even the loudest.  Megan will do a quick audiogram at every adjustment to see how I'm progressing, but so far, it's amazing.


Of course, those are just numbers.  They're really, really amazing numbers, but they don't tell you how incredible this is.  After my adjustment, I met a friend of mine to head to the beach.  Hearing the water is great...but being able to hear WITHOUT worrying about sand or sunscreen breaking my hearing aids is even better.  I can really relax and even play in the water without stress.:)  We went to dinner in a really noisy restaurant with a live musician...and I could actually carry on a conversation with all of that noise.  It was amazing.  I'm still using closed captions for TV, but when I went to the movies today, the quality was awesome!!!  It was REALLY loud, but I didn't know there was such a depth to the sound!!!

Before surgery, other Esteem recipients told me the implant made them a lot more outgoing and confident.  I'm starting to understand that.  There are SO many things I want to do now - water parks, theme parks, jet skis, concerts, football games, etc etc etc.  It's just so much easier to be in crowds and talk to people.  I don't feel stupid constantly because I can't understand what's going on around me and I have to guess.  That was REALLY frustrating before.  Asking everyone to repeat themselves gets old so I would just guess what people were saying...and I was wrong a lot. :)  I'm still in awe of all of this.  It really is a miracle!

The Data

That title makes me laugh...and if you're a teacher, you probably groaned. :)  But it's late and I can't  sleep. :)  I'm really, really dreading church tomorrow (the echoes and static - UGH!) and want to stay positive so I put together this little graph...

OK, I can't get the formatting right.  I was going to explain underneath the chart, but Blogger is not cooperating.  Basically, hearing loss is "graded" on decibels.  Normal hearing is 0-25 dB in adults.  Mild loss is 25-40, moderate is 45-60, severe is 60-85, profound is 90+.  As you can tell, my baseline (natural hearing) is nowhere near normal or even mild loss at any frequency(pitch).  Once hearing loss reaches a certain decibel level, hearing aids are not very effective.  My right ear (not  implanted ear) is able to be corrected with a hearing aid.  It is not in the normal ranges at all, but it  allows me to function.  My left ear, as you can see, was not able to be corrected by hearing aids.  If you aren't familiar with hearing loss, the top 4 lines probably won't mean much to you, but look at the bottom two. Amazing, isn't it?

	250	500	750	1000	1500	2000	300	4000	6000	8000	SRT	Words @ 50 dB
Baseline (12/11)	45	70	80	75	80	80	80	80	70	85	75  dB	0
Aided (12/11)	35	65	60	60	60	65	65	70	DNT	95	60 dB
Activation (5/12)	20	40	30	30	20	20	20	50	60	NR	35 dB	56%
Gain over BL	-25	-30	-50	-45	-60	-60	-60	-30	-10		-45	56%
Gain over HA	-15	-25	-30	-30	-40	-45	-45	-20			-25	56%

3 weeks in

It's been 3 weeks since activation and I LOVE IT!  I know a lot of people who are considering the Esteem read this: DO IT!  And make sure Dr. Shohet is your surgeon! :)

Honestly, it feels so natural and it's only been 3 weeks.  Work is great.  The noise doesn't bother me at all and it's wonderful to not rely on lipreading.  Ever tried lipreading when kids are missing all their front teeth?  It's challenging. :)  I love hearing at night and am sleeping GREAT!  It's still amazing to hear the water in the shower.  Before, I could hear a sound but it was just a dull roar.  Now, I can identify when water hits the floor.  It's really strange.  Of course, I love being able to listen to music while I'm taking bubble baths. :)  Mostly, I'm noticing little things: hearing the kitchen timer or the door to my classroom or my dog breathing when he runs in the room.  The car radio is definitely better than it was at first.  Overall, it's WONDERFUL!

There's only one place I'm having trouble: Church.  Of all places, right? :)  All three Sundays since activation, I've left in tears and with a horrible headache.  Sunday nights and Wednesdays aren't as bad. I can hear the speaker pretty well and even the music, but the crowd noise is terrible.  It echoes and there's constant static.  I'm going for an adjustment on Friday and Megan (the audiologist) thinks she can fix it.  I'm supposed to sing alone tomorrow for the first time since activation...we'll see how that goes. :)

It's officially summer now and I am SO EXCITED to be in the water!!!  See, I hated being around people without my hearing aids.  I always felt so stupid when I couldn't hear and there were lots of embarrassing moments plus I get major anxiety in crowds when I can't hear.  So in the last several years, there are only about 10 people I've been willing to swim around or go to the beach with or do ANYTHING water related with.  Now...I can't wait. :)  I went swimming at my parents' house last night.  It was really incredible to be able to get in the water and put my head under and not worry about getting a hearing aid wet or how long it would take for my ear to dry before I could put the aid back in and ear infetions and all that jazz.  It was amazing to actually hear the water when I came out of it.   I decided yesterday that I'm going to try not wearing a hearing aid in my right ear and so far, it's good.  I definitely miss the volume and I know I'm not hearing as well as I would if I wore it, but even without it, my hearing is better than with two hearing aids before the Esteem.

So basically, I'm unbelievably thankful for this.  The adjustment has been MUCH easier than I expected.  I want to get the other ear done right now. :)